My grandparents have been living in an in-law suite attached to our house for the last 17 years. In a few years my parents are moving out, and I will be moving out even sooner. Meanwhile, my grandparents have already found a new place to stay, and my girlfriend is going crazy living at her parents' place. Long story short, my girlfriend and I are moving in together more than six months ahead of schedule.

Awesome?

I don't know if I could live with a girlfriend unless I knew we were getting married. That's a lot of closeness.

How long have ya'll been together?

We've been together since May 20th. And we are planning on getting married once I finish college.

Good luck. That doesn't seem like a very long time from together to 'together' but I hope you are two are different.

Why is it nerds tend to rush into these things? Fear of ever finding another person you can stick your chode into? The sudden realization that when you have to put your relationship on a schedule it might not be love?

Ah well, best of luck mr Taped. Now please fuck the hell off like you said you were going to. No one gives a shit about your gay ass white trash living arrangements.

You better stick around; you'll want somewhere to vent when she ups and peaces after a month.

I thought you were gay. And I'm not saying that to be mean in any way.

Yeah, we both know things are going really fast. But we're both happier than we've ever been, and want to start a life together. Over the summer, she practically lived here anyway. She spent about 5 nights a week with me and had a ton of her stuff in my room. My parents didn't want her "interfering with my sleep/studies", so now she only stays on weekends.

It may be too soon, but we both really think it will work out. And if it doesn't, then hey, at least I'll have had fun in the process.

EDIT: RE: fuck off and leave already
see sig.

my quote in your signature still applies fyi

thats great, unexpected happiness. And you can have super spontanious sex since its only you two. (we have a third roomate, so I uh haven't been able to catch in on this much )

Does she sneak into the porn stash? If not, she's missing out!!

hey man, it's not taped's fault you haven't found somebody you clicked with so well and fast that you wanted to get married to after several months of dating.





taped, that's fucking awesome. good luck and keep us posted!

Keep posting! Let's stay positive guys!

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Just be ready to determine some boundaries. Just because you live together doesn't mean she turns into the person who makes rules. Just stay a free man.

Your girl may not even be like that, I'm just saying, it always sounds like that's what girls think is the first privilege they gain by living with a guy: the power to make the rules. I mean, shit, I've seen it happen before couples started living together.

Either way I'm honestly jealous, I'd love to have a place away from my parents and with my girlfriend sometime soon...we're both just too young and poor for it to happen, haha. Realistically, it'd probably be a disaster at this point.

nothing could go wrong!

Nigga please, you have absolutely no luck with ladies.

does anyone else think this sounds like a shitty romantic comedy waiting to happen

No, it sounds like you going out of your way to be an asshole.

Just needs Rob Schneider.

Eh...you should always wait at least 2 years before you even THINK of marriage. There's a reason divorce rates are so high, and a lot of it is people meeting someone, dating them for a few months, and saying "THIS IS THE ONE!"

lol, like any of you are really in a place to give relationship advice. If you can't figure out how tocomfortably live with a person you're in love with, you're an idiot.
Risks are just part of life, they shouldn't stop you from jumping into things that have a possibility of a good outcome. Obviously instinct proves itself more useful then retarded biased judgement(we're not objective creatures) time and time again.

If it doesn't work out, who gives a shit. You can move on and move out and just enjoy whatever love you feel while its there.

Yeah, I'm used to it. Every time I post something about me and a girl, there's always a few people who are like "wait, aren't you gay?" It's weird how posting pictures of yourself making out with another guy will determine how people think about you for years to come.


Funny, so does mine.


She doesn't "sneak into" it, but we have watched porn together a few times. She is aware of its size and scope, and it doesn't bother her at all.


This is probably the best post I've ever seen you make.

Awesome, spontaneous sex sounds like fun.

Enjoy it.

I too thought you were gay.



.....have you put it in her butt?

GOod luck to the both of you though

Not yet, but she wants me to.

I agree with this. If you enjoy the time, what's to regret?

Yeah, coming from someone who has actually lived with a woman for a number of years, I'd say bad idea. It's pretty much an obviously rushed relationship (that's how nerds are, drew is right about that). No offense taped, but you are setting yourself up for a fall. The first year is always the best, just wait, things will change. Talking about marriage and shit already sounds mighty highschool of you.


But hey, you're a weird guy, she's probably a weird girl. If anyone proves me wrong it'll be you. So good luck man.I wish nothing but the best for ya.

Bullshit. I know plenty of people who rush relationships.

COOL people.

Moving in with someone is a surefire way to kill your sex life.

Even when discussing temporarily living together with my girlfriend, we are both basically saying, "I want my own room, some private time and don't be in my face the entire fucking time." We are just both the same type of person. So yeah, I'd set some boundaries instead of meeting shit head on.

I dunno, I've been dating the same person for 2 and a half years and I still wouldn't move in with him. Frankly, I think drew and feern are right. It's not just nerds though, everyone rushes their relationships and it's stupid. There's no reason that people should be moving in or getting married when they've been dating less then a year.


Yep.

And you're more qualified to give relationship advice than any of us lowlifes because........?

Also, usually it's just that it turns out these people weren't in love in the first place. They were just in that first year, everything is awesome and YOU'RE THE ONE! phase.

I love generalizations and one-size fits all life advice. Good job guys.

Be careful but good luck. Don't get her pregnant. THat ruins EVERYTHING.

please stop acting like you're surprised that she's an arrogant cunt

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Once she's pregnant you're fucked. Especially if the relationship stops working out afterwards.

That's how I feel about the moving in part, rushing that isn't so bad... it's the marriage part.

I just hate how quickly people feel the need to get married. Is it that bad to just be in love and not have to financially declare it to the world and just make things more complicated? Give it some fucking time mang, no matter how awesome they are nor how much you click. It's just foolish. *shrug*

Hey now, I never once said everyone else doesn't rush relationships too. I just stated that all nerds do.

Funny, I never thought that. Always thought you were bi, mostly because I remember a post or former sig of yours to that effect.


Remember kids, feern knows all.

Men have done this to you?? FTWWW

Actually, moving in with someone is not a surefire way to kill your sexlife. Not communicating about sex is a surefire way to kill your sexlife.

Actually them getting a trial run in an in-law suite (I am presuming this is what we call a granny flat here) sounds a like a great plan. No scary leases and being stuck together if it doesn't work out. They can give it a go and have fun for a bit.

Make sure to set down some bounderies. Punch her in the eye and stick her barefoot in front of the oven so she knows where she's expected to be.

But seriously, I'm happy for you and hope everything works out for you.

And too could have sworn that you were bi or something.