If so, does it have to be particularly bad for someone to have to make you hold it, or do you just easily get bent out of shape?

My best friend fucked my girlfriend at my birthday party. Still my best friend, and I still hang out and hook up with the girl. Soooo, no.

I think guys hold grudges for about 10 minutes before they just kind of let it go. It's too much trouble.

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Wow, dude. You're way more forgiving than I would be.

I've only held grudges against two people in the past few years. Don't have them anymore, i've already exacted revenge.

yes and I'm very spiteful. Once you cross me I never trust you again and I make sure to get revenge. Even if that means I pretend to be friendly afterwards just to have time to plan out and execute my revenge. But it has to be something really major, or a long period of small stupid things that add up.

No, but most people aren't dicks to me, so I don't have a lot of experience with being pissed off at people.

Usually when I'm really annoyed with someone, it lasts for less than a day before I realize it's no big deal and I should stop being an idiot.

Not at all. I've been friends with the person I would have considered my worst enemy at one point.

Not really, but no one really does anything to warrant doing so anyway.

Never. I'll usually be mad for a bit but I always end up forgiving people.

That. There are people who consistently do things that annoy or infuriate me, but I'm always willing to let it go.

one time I let a guy borrow a few bucks back in middle school.... he never payed me back, not once mentioned it
in 5 years.

I ran over his dog.












actually this;

fuck yeah I do.

No, but the old friend of mine I haven't spoken to in almost three years seems to. Ah well.

Yes, but only when the person has done something really horrible, like my old roommate who stole my panties, or the ex who sold my Radiohead concert ticket to someone else while I was out of the country and didn't tell me. I called his house two hours before the concert, and his mom picked up. When I asked if he (my ex) was going to come pick me up any time soon, she said "No, sweetie, he left hours ago. Did you need a ride?" I never got my money back.

But most of the time, these are horrible people who bring shit down on themselves, so there's no need for revenge. For instance, that ex has dropped out of art school and now works for his dad. He has very few friends.

Would you say that he is a Broken man?

Seriously, I would kicked some best friend ass and punched a bitch.

I'm usually more cautious around people that have wronged me, but I tend to forgive whatever happened in a matter of minutes.

I still hold a few, yea.

Different ex. I've got 6, so I'm not always talking about br0ken. He's doing well (last I heard) at UC Berkeley, and he's got a girlfriend named Molly. Not the most attractive girl around, but she seems nice enough.

I'll be quiet then.

Sort of. I've got a very strange memory so I can pretty much recall a conversation I've had with someone about something retarded months later so while I tend to just let things go if you wrong me I'll dredge up all the other things you did to piss me off.

I've held a few but I try not to for the most part. It's just wasted energy in the end.


I take back what I just said. Revenge in this case would not be wasted energy.

Not really. To tell you the truth I usually find I can get over something fairly quickly when everyone around me is raging about it.

I like to think that I'm forgiving.

No. Give me a minute or two to think and I will be OK with whatever happened.

i usually let things go pretty quickly. but i still havn't talked to my ex or answered her text since she cheated on me and we broke up. but i think thats pretty reasonable

If I get to rant and generally get things out my system then I am fine with whatever. Though for some reason when people let me down they are the ones who get far more upset about it than me. Saves me the bother really.

No, like, practically to a fault. I can't stay mad at people, even when I probably should.